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Pain demands to be felt

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They say pain demands to be felt and it’s truly true, you will never experience pain unless you feel it crushing your feelings, senses, and brain and mind each part of your body experience pain in a different way.  Pain is known as something bad something that hurts you badly, you can feel pain when you fall from your bike and get yourself hurt you can be in pain when you touch something hot accidently you can feel pain from a paper cut you can feel pain while sewing a piece of cloth even in sex you are in pain. But here is the odd thing about pain that each situation has a different kind of pain in sex you are in pain yet you are enjoying it sometimes there is pleasure in what you are experiencing. This doesn’t mean that pain is beautiful but it is not bad as well. Pain demands to be felt yes pain demands to be felt, we have to see things from a different perspective to look at things from far away because you can’t see things correctly or different when you are close to it for example like hidden objects game when you take a very close look you can’t see the small things but when you go away from a little you will figure out all the detailed and small things that’s how we should deal with everything we experience even pain.

We have to learn how to live with pain how to find pleasure in it more than suffer, tattoos are one of the painful pleasures you bleed from the needle hence it gives you a beautiful  lasting tattoo on your body.  Little pain is good for oneself pain can be endured by how you choose to absorb it and deal with it as a good thing not a bad thing.

Pain can turn you to a different person the more you get pain the more you grow up the more you can handle things differently. Yes it makes you stronger – braver and wiser but first it makes you one of a kind.  Being strong with ignoring pain and deciding never to feel it doesn’t make you a strong person you need to feel, accept and absorb it.

Somehow I see pain and love share some things in between; both demands to be felt both can cause you hurt and both can change you into strong, brave and wise person both are good. I guess pain and love is one thing it’s just written differently.

From a grammar teacher’s point of view pain is considered to be a bad connotation and love is considered to be a good connotation. But from a writer’s point of view they are both good and bad.

No longer a victim

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Her scars define her history. She has a history she can’t deny or run from. Everyone does. So what? A history she might be shy of, yet, she is proud of herself. Those scars made her the person she is now. Those scars carry millions of buried moans. She won’t let her history interfere with her destiny.

Her decision was what comes first is self care.Fulfilling all her needs. Fights who are thinly disguised misogyny. However, her hatred increases day after day for those dominant selfish human beings.

She wrote this for herself:

  •  Fight for yourself
  • Follow your own steps
  •  Be strong
  • Never underestimate yourself
  • Be yourself
  • Care for yourself
  • Suit all your needs
  • Live for yourself

She will not be a victim anymore. She will stop this and she will take action towards the life she wants. She can shape her own life. She can break those borders. She can set herself free from the victim mentality. The victim of this society. She will destroy those dominant people, those small minds. Roles will be turned.

She is no longer a victim.

Written on the 27th of March 2015
11:30 pm