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Marionettes

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When you have feelings for someone and he share the same for you it doesn’t mean that you should be in a relationship together. Hence you have strong feelings same as he does but not all relationships based on the stereotyping so called thing “in a relationship”. For some just having feelings without being committed to someone makes them feel free they think that they don’t have to be committed to something.

Things can be much easier when you don’t make promises to someone. Well, it’s ironically true there is nothing to claim that because you have feelings for this someone he has to be in a relationship with you. But we as a different society with different traditions and morals we don’t believe in this; we push each other to the stereotyping so called thing being “in a relationship”.  Having feelings for someone follows the step after which is a must to be in a relationship get engaged then marriage after.

This has to stop we have to believe in that some relationships are not meant to happen or to be completed on the follow list of relationship- engagement- marriage; some relationships has to end at some point to stay as it should be from the beginning. You have feelings I have feelings this is good but nothing else will happen. What should happen is to prevent ourselves from having even those feelings for some or actually precisely some kind of people they don’t deserve the time you waste from your life on them hoping for more or hoping to reach your peak point in the kind of relationship you want. We have to face the ugly truth of which there is that kind of people who doesn’t know what they really want yet they want everything together and that just can’t happen and will never ever happen.

You are not a marionette puppet in someone’s hands you are not designed to be manipulated by whoever is in charge. You are the owner of your life you shape your life as you want you are the manipulative and they are the marionettes.

No longer a victim

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Her scars define her history. She has a history she can’t deny or run from. Everyone does. So what? A history she might be shy of, yet, she is proud of herself. Those scars made her the person she is now. Those scars carry millions of buried moans. She won’t let her history interfere with her destiny.

Her decision was what comes first is self care.Fulfilling all her needs. Fights who are thinly disguised misogyny. However, her hatred increases day after day for those dominant selfish human beings.

She wrote this for herself:

  •  Fight for yourself
  • Follow your own steps
  •  Be strong
  • Never underestimate yourself
  • Be yourself
  • Care for yourself
  • Suit all your needs
  • Live for yourself

She will not be a victim anymore. She will stop this and she will take action towards the life she wants. She can shape her own life. She can break those borders. She can set herself free from the victim mentality. The victim of this society. She will destroy those dominant people, those small minds. Roles will be turned.

She is no longer a victim.

Written on the 27th of March 2015
11:30 pm